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2009-10-13T06:33:00.000-07:00

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2009-10-13T06:29:00.000-07:00

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2009-01-30T22:59:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-30T22:57:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-30T22:46:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-30T22:39:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-13T11:27:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-13T11:04:00.000-08:00

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2009-01-09T14:36:00.000-08:00

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2008-12-12T12:25:00.000-08:00

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Keeley Hazell

2008-10-09T11:56:00.000-07:00

Name: Keeley Rebecca Hazell
D.O.B: 18/09/86
Born: South-East London, England

Keeley is just one of the great talents to arise from South-East's London popular town, Lewisham- before her sprung Jude Law, Kate Bush, Gabrielle and even Eric Clapton. Living there for eighteen years of her life, she attended The Ravensbourne School in the local borough of Bromley, and although her career is taking her to far flung places on the globe she still calls London home.

At sixteen Keeley left school, and went straight out to work, and got her first job as a trainee hairdresser. It was here she was given the encouragement by her work colleagues to try modelling. Keeley then seventeen decided to give modelling a chance and paid to have professional pictures taken- little was she to know these pictures would be a starting point for so many more fantastic things to come; she sent them off to various people and was entered into a competition in the Daily star which she later won.

Only seventeen and not legally allowed to topless model she decided to go onto college where she studied fashion, something she had always wanted to do. She was there barely three months when her friend told her about the Page 3 Idol competition running in The Sun. After some hard thought about what she wanted to do with her career she decided to give it a go and sent some snapshots off.

In December 2004 Keeley won the competition, bagging several exciting prizes; her biggest and best was her first, international shoot with Alan Strutt. Here she was shipped away to Tobago for one week of sea, sun and sand, and from it came the pictures which set tongues wagging; here was something special.

Since then Keeley has skyrocketed from a rebellious, trainee hairdresser to being crowned one of the World's Sexiest Women by FHM. Her career is globally covering the whole spectrum from brands to magazines to tabloids and broadsheets hence she is the face of Sony’s Playstation 3 Edition, Formula One 06 and has most recently lead the advertising campaign for Lynx Dark Temptation deodorant. She has graced the covers both nationally and internationally of Arena, FHM, Maxim, Loaded, ZOO and Nuts (to name but a few) as well as drawing the attention of British broadsheets such as The Sunday Independent who have featured several articles on the beauty, as well as a cover on their ‘Sunday Review’ magazine. She is a keen environmentalist and has been recognised by the British Conservative Leader David Cameron as a huge Environmental Icon.

The demand on ‘Keeley Mania’ is so strong in 2007 she released two calendars, both of which were the fastest selling calendars of the year. Most recently she is progressing in to singing and presenting with her first music video ‘Voyeur’ being set to release for download in May 2008 and the online technology programme which she co-presents ByteMeTv attracting a huge fan base.

No Underwear

2008-10-05T09:28:00.000-07:00

The Best Hand Painting

2008-10-02T01:48:00.000-07:00

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2008-10-01T18:58:00.000-07:00

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2008-09-29T05:54:00.001-07:00

Lady Godiva

2008-09-28T00:21:00.000-07:00

Born: c. 1040
Birthplace: Near Coventry, England
Died: c. 1067
Best Known As: The woman who rode through town naked on a horse

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The wife of Earl Leofric of Mercia, and a devout and generous patron of churches and abbeys, she was Lady of Coventry in her own right. She died in 1067 and about a 100 years after her death, Roger of Wendover, a monk of St Alban's, told how this ‘saintly countess… beloved of God’, inspired by the Trinity and the Blessed Virgin, begged her husband to free Coventry from tax, until, angry at her persistence, he told her that if she rode naked across the crowded market-place, he would grant her request. She agreed, but let her hair hang loose, so that ‘her whole body was veiled except her fair white legs’. Her husband ‘counted this a miracle’, and lifted the tax. Later versions, beginning in the 16th century, switch the emphasis from holiness to cleverness; Godiva, it was now said, asked the magistrates to make everyone stay indoors with closed windows as she rode by, which they did, so ‘her husband's imagination [was] utterly disappointed’. By 1659, a new character had been added to the legend: Peeping Tom, struck blind for trying to see the naked Godiva.

Historians are agreed that Godiva and Leofric were real people, who may well have remitted some unpopular tax, but the tale shows influence both from saints' legends (pious wife contrasted with cruel husband, modesty miraculously protected), and from folklore motifs. There are several other English local traditions in which some grant or privilege is said to have been won for the community by a great lady's willingness to undergo a humiliating ordeal: to walk barefoot, or ride naked, or crawl on hands and knees round a piece of land which she wishes her husband to donate to charity, for example at Tichborne (Hampshire) and St Briavels (Gloucestershire). These may of course be imitations of the Godiva tale, being recorded far later; however, the motif of a clever woman who fulfils seemingly impossible or intolerable conditions by a trick is old and international. So too is the punishment of curiosity by blinding.

During the Middle Ages Coventry held an annual eight-day fair in Corpus Christi week, which included miracle plays and a procession; after the Reformation, this was replaced by a civic pageant at Midsummer, which was suppressed during the Commonwealth but lavishly revived in the reign of Charles II. From 1678, there are records of a ‘Lady Godiva’ appearing in the pageant; at first the role was taken by a boy, but from 1765 there was a real woman (fully dressed) on a white horse. Meanwhile, a life-size wooden figure of a man in Tudor armour, the original function of which is unknown, had become famous as ‘Peeping Tom’; it was carried in the annual procession, and between whiles displayed in various houses and hotels. It is currently in the Cathedral Lane Shopping Centre. The rowdiness and ribald humour of the occasion drew Victorian disapproval, but parades continued intermittently until the 1960s, and were revived in 1996.

The story of Lady Godiva and Peeping Tom is a great favourite, not merely in Coventry but as a part of English popular culture, the combination of virtue, sexual titillation, and earthy humour having proved irresistible.

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2008-09-11T20:16:00.000-07:00

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Select 'Save this image as' and save the image to your desktop
Open your 'Desktop Pictures' or 'Appearances' control panel
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2008-09-11T20:05:00.000-07:00

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2008-09-10T17:07:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-31T17:15:00.001-07:00

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2008-08-31T17:12:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-31T17:10:00.001-07:00

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2008-08-31T17:08:00.000-07:00

31 Things You Learn From Watching Porn

2008-08-27T14:55:00.000-07:00

Women wear high heels to bed.
Men are never impotent. No matter their age.
When going down on a woman 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.
If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man, she will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist he have sex with her.
Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.
Women enjoy having sex with ugly middle-aged men.
Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blow job.
Women always orgasm when men do.
A blow job will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.
All women are noisy fucks.
People in the 70’s couldn’t fuck unless there was a wild guitar solo in the background.
Those tits are real.
A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take his half-erect penis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s butt.
Men always groan ‘OH YEAH’ when they cum.
If there is two of them they ‘high five’ each other. (and the girl isn’t disgusted!)
Double penetration makes women smile.
Asian men don’t exist.
If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex in the bushes the boyfriend won’t bash seven shades of shit out of you if you shove your cock in his girlfriend’s mouth.
There’s a plot.
When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite a woman by giving her a gentle slap on the ass.
Nurses suck patients cocks.
Men always pull out.
When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best friend, she’ll only be momentarily pissed off before fucking both of you.
Women never have headaches.
When a woman is sucking a man’s cock, it’s important for him to remind her to ’suck it’
Assholes are clean.
A man ejaculating on a woman’s butt is a satisfying result for all parties concerned.
Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a man’s pants and find a cock there.
Men don’t have to beg.
When standing during a blow job, a man will always place one hand firmly on the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.
Pigtails = handlebars

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Don't Be Afraid to Masturbate

2008-08-26T12:25:00.000-07:00

Many psychologists and researchers have discovered that masturbation can be, and is, a positive addition to one's personal and sexual life. However there are many taboo's related to masturbation and many feel it is something to be embarrassed about it. Let's however look at the facts.

As a common subject, masturbation needs no particular explanation, but most dictionaries describe it as manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure. In many countries and cultures, masturbation has been either prohibited or highly discouraged, as in Islam. In some countries it was even a capital offense!

Masturbation is common

It must be noted that along with sexual intercourse masturbation is the most common sexual practice. Most people are able to achieve orgasm solely by masturbation and without sexual intercourse.

It has also been well documented that masturbation is common in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity.

Masturbation is safe

Where safe sex is an issue, or that of pre-marital sex (without penetration), and other means of abstinence, masturbation provides a sure method of eliminating all risk. The French have known this for centuries, and it is part of their sexual context. Also, mutual masturbation is gaining popularity among the young school-age children...in response to education about AID and pregnancy prevention.

Masturbation Techniques

There are both female and male techniques to masturbation, and both are very specific. For men, it is very interesting to note that an Australian research published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer.

As a negative, and worth noting, very frequent masturbation can lead to reduced interest in further sexual activity, tiredness and other unwanted side-effects. However, these negative qualities to masturbation tend to make frequent masturbation self-limiting for almost all men and women.

There is also compulsive masturbation, and this is considered as a sexual anomaly, and medical help is often required to stop it.

Masturbation history

Taken historically, masturbation has a colorful past. The Egyptians held that the entire universe was created by the God ATUN masturbating and then ejaculating. The ancient Greeks held it a perfectly natural sexual activity.

This is however quite unlike the modern Greeks who hold that masturbating makes you stupid, and the Greek work malakas (from malakia = masturbation) is the word for a stupid person, an insult, and prevalent in the everyday speech of all Greek people.

In ancient China, masturbation was also commonplace, and considered an acceptable activity, except masturbating to ejaculation. This was discouraged, as they believed it sapped your vitality.

This thought was mirrored in 18th and 19th century Europe (and America), and lasted well into the 20th century. In fact, in the 19th and early 20th century, this thought of masturbation was considered an illness or perverted activity, and not only discouraged, but forbidden.

Today, most outmoded beliefs (except in some Islamic countries, where masturbation is considered as Haraam = forbidden) and only in some circumstances.

One well-known and respected Islamic scholar has written that "Masturbation may be permissible so that men and women have a healthy knowledge of their own bodies, and so that they may be able to communicate with their marital partner about their sexual needs.' So even in very strict and rigid cultures, masturbation can be acceptable.

Masturbation your not alone

Statistics also show that an overwhelming amount of both men and women masturbate or have masturbated in their lives. Be it the subject of humor, or literature, or religion, masturbation appears to be a common human activity and condition.

It must be mentioned that the Catholic church still holds masturbation to be a sin, and there is much controversy over this and other dogmatic principles of the Catholic church.

Do not be afraid then to masturbate, should you be in a situation or condition where it is preferable to abstention. Masturbation can relieve depression and anxiety, and even give some people a more self-confident image of themselves.

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G Spot and Orgasm Through Oral Sex

2008-08-26T12:19:00.000-07:00

The G-spot has been the subject of lore and controversy since it was first identified in 1950 by the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Some sexologists believe the small area behind the pubic bone and accessible through the anterior wall of the vagina is an erogenous zone that when stimulated leads to heightened sexual arousal and powerful orgasms. Others dispute the zone's very existence, arguing that studies have turned up no scientific evidence of the G-spot's location, or only highly questionable results.

Orgasm Through Oral Sex
Oral sex is often one of the only ways men know how to get their partners off. Unfortunately, even oral sex doesn't automatically bring women to orgasm. Remember that a sizable percentage of women have never had an orgasm, and many of them are probably guilty of faking orgasms during oral sex. After all, they feel even more pressure to climax when you're selflessly trying to please them. Plus, we can't discuss oral sex without talking about some ways you can pleasure your partner while she pleasures you. In this section, we'll look at some techniques that can help in both areas.

Humming – If your partner enjoys the way a vibrator makes her feel inside, then you can turn your mouth into a vibrator during oral sex just by humming. You can try humming an actual tune or just maintaining a single pitch. Either way the vibration in your mouth and jaw will be transferred into her pelvic region and her clitoris. This technique may be especially useful if your partner's not quite aroused enough for direct clitoral stimulation.

Rotating Tongue – Some women love circular stimulation. That's why grinding into your partner during vaginal intercourse can often bring her to orgasm. During oral sex, you can use the same trick with your tongue. Move your tongue around her vagina or around her clitoris in a rotating motion. Start slowly, then begin to move faster as her pleasure builds.

Licking – Most men resort to a type of licking motion when performing oral sex on a woman, however, its the movement of the tongue which matters when it comes to helping her achieve orgasm. Have you ever watched a dog drink water out of its bowl? If so, then you've seen the short, fast movement of its tongue in the water. That's the type of movement you can imitate during oral sex. Because she receives quick jolts of pleasure interrupted by a brief moment of no stimulation, its almost as if you are teasing her and this is going to increase her sexual tension and help her build towards the climax. When she is nearing that point, however, you may need to switch to a technique that provides more continuous stimulation.

Face sitting – Another trick to try when it comes to oral sex is having your partner sit on your face. While she straddles your head and your tongue is going to work on her clitoris, you can have your hands on her hips and can move her body in a circular motion or in the diamond-shape we discussed earlier. This will add even greater stimulation and may make her reach orgasm faster and harder.

Toys & Cunnilingus – Even though oral sex does provide some women with orgasms, some report that these orgasms are not as fulfilling because they are not accompanied by that sense of fullness provided by the penetration of your penis in their vagina. To alleviate that problem and to even improve the odds of attaining an orgasm, you can use a dildo or a vibrator on your partner at the same you are performing oral sex. If you don't want to share her vagina with a toy, use a vibrator designed for anal stimulation instead.

Oral Sex & Popsicles – Popsicles may be the most perfect edible sex toy. Not only are they an ideal shape, but the handle makes them easier to use than bananas or other items. Take a popsicle in your favorite flavor and gently insert it inside your partner's vagina as if it were a dildo or vibrator. The coldness of it inside the warmth of her body is going to send chills through her body and definitely kick her arousal up a notch. You can either thrust the popsicle gently in and out of her body, or you can use the tip to rub circles around her clitoris. When most of the popsicle has melted, its your turn to use your tongue to lick up all of the melted sweetness.

Sixty-Nine – Most people have heard of this sexual position but not as many have tried it, even though it provides both you and your partner with an ideal method of achieving orgasm. For those of you who are not familiar, this position would involve you performing oral sex on your partner while she is doing the same to you. Some couples prefer to use this technique in a side to side position while others prefer one partner to be one top of the other. Either way, your biggest problem is going to be staying focused on pleasing your woman while you are being pleasured. This can be a tremendous distraction and often Sixty- Nine sessions end with the man climaxing before the woman gets the chance. This possibility can be reduced if she is sufficiently aroused before you get started.

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Celebrities Naked Pictures

2008-08-26T03:07:00.000-07:00

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Loud Sex

2008-08-23T03:58:00.001-07:00

My Wife Is a Porn Star

2008-08-22T16:58:00.000-07:00

Rusty, a 34-year-old bouncer in L.A. married to a porn star named Mikayla Mendez, leads a slightly less charmed domestic existence. It's not so much dealing with his wife's occupational hazards or with the guys at work-"They always ask if it bothers me," Rusty says. "It doesn't"-it's a future of contending with soccer moms. Rusty and Mendez, 28, have a 3-year-old son. This month he'll be starting preschool, and there will inevitably be questions about what his parents do for a living. "I'll play it off," Mendez says vaguely. Rusty, crooking his shaved head, says he'll run interference: "I'll play Mr. Mom. I'll go to school and interact with the parents."

The couple met through friends in 2002. Mendez, a former patients' advocate in the health-care industry, stumbled into porn five years ago after answering a newspaper ad for figure models. She now drives a Mercedes Kompressor and, between acting, stripping, and personal appearances, earns a six-figure income. But she hasn't knitted her porn career into her personal life: She avoids discussing scenes with Rusty.

That policy is more for her own emotional well-being than for Rusty's-he insists that he'd happily talk shop. "Porn has improved our love life-we do it every day and it turns me on that she's with other people," he says, though he admits he has concerns about STDs and expresses relief that Mendez now has a contract with a company that does condom-only movies. "She's an animal, and I am very unusual. What can I say?"

Kenneth Austin, who grew up in Trenton, New Jersey, has no compulsion to talk shop with his girlfriend, eight-year porn veteran Charmane Star-or to see any of her films. For Austin, a clean-cut 32-year-old who works in interactive marketing, the only way for the relationship to work is for the details of Star's professional life to remain walled off from their personal life.

But one drunken night about a year ago, not long after they started dating, that boundary was crossed. "We went with a couple of my girlfriends to hang out in their hotel room," Star says, sitting on the terrace of a Japanese restaurant overlooking the Sunset Strip. "Then this music-producer dude showed up and all of a sudden these girls were running around in their panties." She shrugs. "My friends are porno. That's the way it is."

"I happily left," Austin says. "Those girls were trash."

Having lived in Hollywood for three years, Austin insists that Star, a petite Filipina with an exuberant laugh, is the sanest girl he's met here. He doesn't lie to his friends about what she does, and they've been mostly supportive. "One told me that he erased all her movies from his hard drive," he says. Even his parents have been accepting. Still, Austin looks relieved when the conversation turns to Star's decision last month to stop shooting porn with men and to focus exclusively on women.

She maintains that the switch has nothing to do with Austin. "He's lucky and his timing is good," she says, excusing herself to go to the bathroom. Austin watches her leave. "When she did do it [with guys]," he says, "it was hard for me to deal with. But my attitude is that if you can find a cool girl . . . good for you."

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2008-08-21T08:25:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-21T05:11:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-20T14:34:00.000-07:00

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Side by side position

2008-08-19T14:02:00.000-07:00

For couples who prize intimacy and close contact when they make love, side-by-side sex positions give maximum opportunity for cuddling, caressing and kissing.

Most couples like to bring variety into their sex lives by using sex positions that suit their mood at the time. And for couples who make love several times a week, lovemaking can range from the warm and intimate to the highly adventurous.

Athletic sex positions which require the couple to be fit and supple can be highly enjoyable from time to time, but they do have their drawbacks. Many of the more adventurous positions, while providing stimulation in new and different ways, are often tiring and are rarely romantic.

Positions for intimacy

Side-entry sex positions allow for maximum body contact, are restful, and are ideal for occasions when intimacy is the order of the day. They are particularly useful when one or both partners are tired, or when the woman is pregnant.

In many of the side-entry positions the man is able to cuddle his partner, and his hands are free to caress her. And for the couple who like their lovemaking to be accompanied by words of love, these are among the best sex positions for intimate conversation.

'Spoons' position

The best known of these sex positions is known as the 'spoons'. This is an exceptionally good position to use during pregnancy because the woman's stomach can lie flat on the bed and it is very restful for her in the last few months of pregnancy.

The couple lie on their sides with the man cuddling into the woman's back as she draws her knees up towards her stomach. He then tucks into her and penetrates her.

Penetration can be very good, especially if the woman angles her body down towards her feet and the man can, in a limited way, make thrusting movements. He can reach around and stimulate her clitoris or she can open her legs and do so herself. He can also reach round and caress her breasts and stomach and, at the same time, kiss her neck and back. The area of skin contact is extensive and this can be very romantic and sensuous.

It is a very pleasant position for the couple who like to fall asleep after sex - in fact, it is quite possible to go to sleep with the penis still in the vagina.

Variations

A variation on this position is for the woman, once penetrated, to roll over on to her back a little and to place one leg over the upper leg of the man. This opens up her vulva considerably and leaves her clitoris available for her or her partner to caress. She now has both hands free to caress herself, or her lover.

Her stomach is totally free, again making this position good for late on in pregnancy. Penetration can be good but not exceptionally deep, and any thrusting movement is somewhat restricted.

From the woman's point of view it is restful and she can stimulate herself and her partner's scrotum. In some women the man's penis stimulates the G spot in this position, giving extra sensations.

A further variation is when the couple lie on their sides facing one another. The woman draws up her legs to her chest and opens them widely. The man then enters her while the woman folds her legs around his back. She also cuddles him around the shoulders with her arms.

Penetration can be very good but movement is somewhat restricted. The couple can kiss very easily and passionately. There is a lot of skin contact and this can make the couple feel very much 'at one' with each other.

This position is not suitable for very overweight people or for women who are pregnant.

Side-entry position

One of the best lovemaking positions of all is a side-entry one. The woman lies on her back and the man on his side at right angles to her body. The woman can then draw her thighs back towards her stomach while he enters her as he lies underneath her.

Penetration is deep and movement can be good, but not excellent. It is another restful position during pregnancy or for the larger woman. Both partners can reach the woman's clitoris to stimulate it and the man can caress most parts of her body, including her breasts. The only real disadvantage is that they cannot kiss.

It is a good position for a 'quickie' because it involves very little undressing. It is also good for conceiving, especially if the woman remains with her legs in the drawn-back position for a few minutes after intercourse. The woman can also reach the man's scrotum.

The anus of both partners is accessible for those who like anal stimulation and it is a good position for inexperienced women who have difficulty having orgasms during intercourse.

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Delaying Orgasm For Men

2008-08-19T11:10:00.000-07:00

Men who worry about how long it takes them to come aren’t doing themselves any favours, in terms both of enjoying sex, rather than worrying the while, and of lasting longer. Prolonging sex and delaying orgasm needn’t be, and shouldn’t be, an exercise in trying to switch off from feelings. Your body will just get on doing what it’s doing while your mind is trying to be elsewhere. If you want to last longer, you’d be better learning to enjoy the feeling of having sex while it’s happening, rather than fixate on the ‘goal’.

Just as with women, men’s sexual response cycle has a plateau phase, when you’re aroused and the feeling is exquisite, but the ‘over the edge’ point comes and you tip over. Learning to stay on the plateau, and enjoy being there, can be key to making sex last longer.

To start with, masturbate before having sex. As to how long before, that really depends on you and can be anything between half an hour and the best part of a day. Most men last longer the second time – but this isn’t just about taking the edge off; you can use masturbation to help you gain control of when you reach orgasm.

Now, it’s true that the real surge in sensation comes just before orgasm, around the time when it’s pretty much too late to stop and go back. When you masturbate, don’t push for that maximum sensation. You might use a numerical scale – 2 being a relatively flaccid penis, 8 being very nearly almost the point of no return, beyond which 9 and 10 explode in rapid succession. Don’t worry, if you follow this method you’re not doomed to making love by numbers for the rest of your life. This is a training stage.

Now vary the pace at which you masturbate. Vary the hands – and the ways you’re using them, in order to get away from the automatic ‘pump, pump, squirt’ routine you’ve hard-wired into your brain the last 10 000 odd times you’ve masturbated.

And on the scale, let yourself drift up and down, from three or four to seven, pulling back from eight – and taking your hand away and tightening your PC muscle (or using the squeeze technique) if you’ve very nearly almost gone too far. You can keep this exercise going for as long as you’ve got time, all the while registering your level of arousal at any one moment. (By the by, you should find that, when you do reach orgasm, it’s amongst the most explosive ever.)

All this is, probably, without your partner being present – although that is where your imagination comes in. It might well be the case that, when you transfer these plateau-stage skills to sex for two, it isn’t quite such a simple matter to keep control. That’s why you’re allowed to keep using the 1-10 scale when you’re having sex – and you’ll probably want to do that the first few times.

When you’re having sex, slow down if you’re getting to eight too quickly. Change the way you thrust. Try not thrusting, but gyrating your hips instead, as you would in the Coital Alignment Technique position, and grind your pubic bone against her clitoral area. She’ll love it. Use extra lubricant to lessen the friction. Spend time kissing and caressing your partner rather than thrusting. Should you feel you’re about to tip over, stop and tighten your PC muscle while you regain control.

Techniques such as these can help you last longer – but don’t forget that the real key to women’s enjoyment of sex is plenty of loving foreplay. Given that, she’s probably a lot less concerned about how long you last than you are.

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Try a new sex position tonight!

2008-08-19T10:53:00.000-07:00

Try a new sex position tonight! Brush up your sexual repertoire and discover the best sex positions for men and women. Whatever position you choose, just remember to do it with passion!

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Excessive Vaginal Wetness

2008-08-19T10:29:00.000-07:00

By: Francis K. Githinji

Many are mistaken that excessive vaginal wetness is a great advantage on sexual intercourse. For maximum performance a certain level of wetness is recommended. Too much of it reduces sexual pleasure. In a woman, great stimulation along the vaginal wall is lost. Men love it tight and when excess juices are released they do not feel the firm grip on their manhood. For pleasurable sexual overtures, optimum level of friction is needed. Too much lubricants reduces the friction thus reducing the sensation. For most women heightened arousal results to much wetness. As they become more aroused they become more wet. Men suffer more due to excessive vaginal wetness taking into consideration that high number of women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

It is good to get rid of excessive vaginal wetness in order to enjoy sexual intercourse while possible. If you suspect such a disorder it is good to visit the doctor. This clears any fear of infection. For pleasure purposes though it is worth the agony of looking for suggestion. Among the medical options their is preventing the cervix from secreting the lubricants. This can be done through lasering or freezing the cervix, electrical stimulation, or magnetic field treatment. You can also opt for surgery but this should be the last option. Their is no guarantee that the condition will not be back after few days or months. all these are trials to curb the situation.

There are non-medical options to prevent excessive vaginal wetness. It is believed for a fact that, if something makes the mouth dry it can make the vagina dry too. This has been used as a remedy for vagina wetness. Things like alcohol are known to dehydrate the mouth. Many argue that alcohol, cigarettes can regulate the vagina wetness thus increasing sexual pleasure. While choosing a condom brand, use a ribbed condom or a penis sleeve. If all these remedies are unavailable do it locally. Wrap a piece of absorbent cloth or towel around two fingers and insert them in the vagina. This soaks the excess juices and reduces the wetness. The genital area can as well be blown by by a fan. This makes the wetness to evaporate.

Excessive vaginal wetness can be a real pain in the neck and people do all they can if only to avoid it. Inserting an ice cube in to the vagina helps in contracting the walls. The penis gets the firm grip. This can also be achieved using sex positions which narrow the vagina. If you are the man, reposition her in a way that her legs will not be far apart. Vaginal cones can also help in a great way but much patience is needed. Just like any other exercise persistence is needed. It makes the muscle strong to give that tight feeling to a man. Absorb shun natural powder can be used to absorb excess wetness. This is a perfect regulator since the more powder you use the more the absorption. You can be able to achieve the right friction easily. Their are also vaginal creams which are advertised through the Internet. They are said to offer a good solution to excessive vaginal wetness.

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3 Ways to Give a Girlfriend an Orgasm

2008-08-19T10:25:00.000-07:00

A common email I get from my readers is a question on how to give a girl (especially their girlfriend) an orgasm. Like most guys, they want to make sure their woman is having fun during sexual intercourse. The problem is they encounter a girl who is having trouble achieving the pinnacle of the sexual experience and want to help her.

But the goods news is there are a few ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. In this article, I will outline a three step plan that you can use to help your achieve it.

Let's get started...

The first and most important step is to set up the right kind of environment. Unlike men who are ready for sex at any given moment, women need an atmosphere that is conducive to sex. That means a little bit of romance with candles and sensual music.

While you might feel cheesy doing some of this, a sexual atmosphere is incredibly important to turning her on. Once you have her in this atmosphere, talk to her and tell her how much you're attracted to her. Make this a special time for her that prepares for whats to come.

Next you should concentrate on foreplay. I would consider foreplay to be one of the most powerful ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. Engage your woman in heavy petting and continue to set the mood by confidently talking to her. At first stay away from your genital area, but as the petting progresses, tease her by going there for a few seconds and moving away.

During foreplay, it's important to develop a build up to the sex part. So teasing can really help the encounter. You can use teasing by touching sensitive areas and moving away. Done right, this will drive her absolutely crazy.

Once foreplay is culminated, you should move on to the third and final step which is oral sex. If you know women, then you know that a lot of them have trouble having an orgasm from the standard penetration sex. So your only shot for giving your girlfriend an orgasm could be from oral sex.

So now that you're down there, what should you do?

Well the most important thing to do is to continue to tease, which means licking around her inner thighs and near her genital area. Every so often start going down on her and then quickly move away. You should keep this up for at least a few minutes. If you do this right, she'll eventually grab your head or make it VERY CLEAR that she wants you to get down to business.

Now that you're at the main event you should try different techniques and see her reaction. Since all women are different it might take a bit of hit-or-miss to see what she actually enjoys. You can tell if she is enjoying by her rapid breathing or jerking motion if you're doing stuff something is right.

Because women and their sexual preferences are different, I cannot give you absolutes about what will work every time. But I can list a few tips that can help you along:

Use lots of saliva. As I always say..."The wetter, the better"
Be sure to pay attention to her clitoral area. You can use your finger or your tongue to properly stimulate this area.
Find her G-Spot. While this could be a whole course unto itself, the G-Spot is incredibly important to creating a powerful orgasm in a woman. You can find the G-Spot by putting your finger inside a girl and feeling along the top of her vaginal area. You'll feel a sponge like texture along the top. If you really want to drive her wild, stimulate this while stimulating her clitoris
Don't be afraid to try new things. If something doesn't work, move on and test new moves. Eventually you'll come across something that really works.

While there are a ton of different ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm, you'll have to keep working at it till you find a move that she REALLY enjoys. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work at first, just keep trying and practicing new things.

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Orgasm Facts and Myths

2008-08-19T10:15:00.000-07:00

MYTH: There is more chance of a woman achieving orgasm with a large penis.
FACT: The size of a penis has no effect on the woman's ability to orgasm as there are very few nerve endings within the vagina, making the size of the penis immaterial in attaining orgasm. Meaning that both small or large penises can give the same amount of pleasure for a woman. The G spot is located only 2 inches inside the vagina and can be stimulated easily by an average penis. An old saying rings true: It's not what you've got, it's what you do with it.

MYTH: A vaginal orgasm is better than a clitoral orgasm.
FACT: That all depends on the woman in question as some women prefer G spot stimulation and others clitoral. Experiment to find out which offers you the most satisfaction.

MYTH: To feel sexually satisfied you must reach orgasm.
FACT: Many women feel sexually satisfied whether they reach orgasm or not. But an orgasm is the icing on the cake and preferable for most women if they could achieve orgasm on every single occasion. Problems may occur if a woman never reaches orgasm (see common reasons for not achieving orgasm).

MYTH: Condoms affect a woman's ability to orgasm.
FACT: It is unlikely for a condom to interfere with a woman's orgasm. If a woman does find it a problem, maybe the use of a ribbed condom will increase the sensitivity.Condoms are also a very effective method of contraception and the best form of providing safe sex.

MYTH: An orgasm is always an earth moving experience
FACT: Some women do not experience orgasm in the sense of feeling their pelvic floor muscles contract. Some women have orgasms and don't know it.They do however reach a peak of arousal after which they feel very relaxed and contented, the same feelings other women experience after orgasm.

MYTH: If a woman cannot reach orgasm, then her partner is not a skillful lover.
FACT: There are many ways a loving partner can help there woman reach orgasm. Communication between you and your partner plays the biggest role in achieving orgasm. Tell your partner what excites and arouses you.

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2008-08-18T15:19:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-18T14:51:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-17T00:58:00.000-07:00

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The Top Mistake Men Make During Sex

2008-08-16T16:10:00.000-07:00

We all want to make sex as good as it can be for our partners. But there's more to good sex than choosing the best sex position - you have to know which sex positions and techniques to avoid! So here is a list of things for men to avoid during sex, along with some advice about the best sex positions - the ones that will make sex great for both of you!

First Sex Position Mistake: Pushing your partner to do anything she isn't comfortable with. So, if you've been thinking of trying the outrageous sex positions adopted by some porn stars, forget it! Start from a more realistic place. Being comfortable for a woman involves two things: first of all, she has to be physically comfortable. That might mean she isn't going to feel too happy if you ask her to put her ankles behind her ears while you have sex. It might also mean that you have to avoid any position that gives you the deepest penetration, since your penis might bang her cervix and give her some serious discomfort. Second, she has to emotionally comfortable. So if you treat her like one of those porn stars, she isn't going to be too happy either, and you're not likely to be invited back to bed. This includes: wanting to ejaculate over her without her whole-hearted agreement, using dirty talk that is disrespectful to her, wanting to slap her butt if she isn't into it, and generally treating her like a sex object rather than a person.

Second Sex Position Mistake: Being too much of a gentleman. There's an old saying: "A gentleman takes his weight on his arms." If you think this is the best way to behave during sex in the man on top position, did you ever try asking your partner what she wants? A lot of women like to feel the weight of their man on top of them during sex - they say things like: it makes them feel safe, secure, loved, or that they just like to feel the energy and power of their man in this position. Sure, if you're a lot heavier than she is, you might squash her, so exercise some judgment, but generally, in the man on top position, let her feel your weight!

Third Sex Position Mistake: Don't just lie there all the time when she's having fun. If she's on top, riding you, remember that you can still move during sex in this position, even if it's only a little bit. You can thrust your hips to match her movements, raise your knees to alter the angle at which your penis enters her vagina, and caress her breasts and clitoris if she's facing you while you have sex. Remember - you don't like it if she lies motionless during man on top sex, so in this position, return the favour and move about yourself!

Fourth Sex Position Mistake: Being too aggressive during sex. Sure, some women like rough sex, either all the time or once in a while, but for a woman, sex tends to be something special and she'd like you to treat it that way too! That means not pumping away aggressively without her encouragement, not being selfish (i.e. having an orgasm yourself but not bothering to make sure she has one too), and not moving her around roughly during sex. If you want to show how much of a man you are by being a bit dominant, do it with firmness and kindness, rather than flinging her around the bed like a rag doll. Needless to say, this advice applies whatever sex position you are using!

Fifth Sex Position Mistake: Sticking to the same old sex positions every time you make love. Sure, you don't have to try all the adventurous and challenging positions you can find on the internet, but a bit of variation really adds spice to your sex life. Even if you're extremely fond of the man on top position, for example, sex in the rear entry or side by side positions will let you see things very differently, may well get you much more aroused, and will certainly give you both some different sensations!

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2008-08-16T14:42:00.000-07:00

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Penis Size Effect Your Sex Life?

2008-08-15T11:35:00.000-07:00

Does penis size matter? That is a question often asked by men on my website. The chances are guys that you penis is of normal size. I did research for my site and found the majority of men fell within the normal parameters of penis size. The average penis size when a little man when erect in the United States is 5.1 inches when erect.

The reason that many men feel their penis is small is because of the angle they are looking at the own penis. The way your have to look down at your manhood is a form of optical illusion and will always look smaller than those that you may see in the showers after sports just due to the angles involved.

Listen guys remember it is what you do with your penis that really gets girls going. When it comes to love-making most women cannot obtain an orgasm from vagina penetration only. Women need other forms of stimulation to become aroused and to climax. It does not matter if you penis is not that large because as long as you are sympathetic lover who is willing to listen to your partner and give them what they really want, the size of your penis is not an issue.

A womens body is a complicated and beautiful thing. A women has many erogenous zones that when stimulated correctly can really bring about a fantastic climax for her. The four main zones are the clitoris, g-spot, AFE Zone and U-spot. There are many ways these zones can be stimulated from the right sexual position to hit the right spots to using a tongue or finger(s) to stimulate a partner.

In the end guys it all bout being able to understand your women. If you listen to her and openly discuss what she wants no matter the size of your penis the sex will be great and everyone will benefit. If your women are happy in the bedroom then they will be willing to please you. To sum up guys is not about size but what you do with it.

There are always other options that can also help in the bedroom and make sexual intercourse fun and more rewarding. Women a multi-orgasmic and need multiple stimuli in many instances to really get a fulfilling orgasm. The best way to bring his about and one that may couples should contemplate is the use of sex toys. Sex toys can spice up love making and are not just men who feel inadequate. If you truly want to make your women happy then doing everything that you can which includes using love aids will help you achieve your goal.

Author: Holly Franklin. Read Holly's own sexual fantasy story on her site where she encourages others to do likewise her aim is to make people more open about sex. For men's isuues visit what is the average size of a penis

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Two Types of Female Orgasms

2008-08-14T00:35:00.000-07:00

One of the biggest misconceptions people have about female orgasms is that they are all created equal. The truth is that not all orgasms are the same: they may all be equally pleasurable but they are generally arrived at through different means.

Basically, there are two types of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral. In this chapter, we're going to briefly discuss both types. This will provide you with some background that you'll need when we can begin experimenting with orgasm-producing techniques a little later in the book.

Vaginal Orgasm
This type of orgasm was the only type Freud and other men of his time felt to be legitimate types of sexual pleasure for women to experience. Unfortunately for women, only about 20% can receive an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The other 80% need something a little extra.

Before we get into that, let me explain exactly what we mean by vaginal orgasm. A vaginal orgasm occurs solely because of stimulation of the vagina. That stimulation is usually in the form of the thrusting of the male penis during vaginal intercourse.

The reason most women do not receive an orgasm just from penetration is that the vagina is not a highly sensitive area. This is actually a good thing. Remember that the vagina is not just used for sex but also for delivering babies. If the inside walls of the vagina were made up of concentrated nerve endings like we find in the nipple, the clitoris, or the penis, then childbirth would be even more difficult for women.

In fact, only the first two inches of the vagina are sensitive at all. So why do some women have orgasms solely from vaginal stimulation? The answer is they probably aren't. Women who report vaginal orgasms benefit from their anatomy. In some women, the labia minora are formed in such a way that vaginal penetration actually causes the labia to rub against or gently pull on the clitoris. This, not vaginal stimulation, is leading to the orgasm in most cases. Technically, however, this would still be considered a vaginal orgasm because there is not direct stimulation of the clitoris.

Another reason why some women report having vaginal orgasms is that the shape of the penis and their preferred position allow for stimulation of the G-spot. Because the G-spot is linked to increased pleasure and may also induce orgasms, this is another possibility worth considering.

The bottom line here though is that vaginal orgasms are not common. Men and women need to realize that penetration is often not going to be enough to accomplish the goal. The good news is that gives both partners an excuse to experiment with some new things, including some we'll discuss later in the book.

Clitoral Orgasm
By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. Before we just into that subject, I think it may help to share with you some information about the clitoris.

The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don't realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren't the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.

Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.

The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.

With that said, its important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.

What many people don't realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman's body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.

Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we'll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.

Other couples I've met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it's usually not the most satisfactory approach.

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.

And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

Before we close this chapter, let's talk about what happens during a clitoral orgasm. As I mentioned above, the clitoris feels up with blood and becomes erect like a penis. This means its usually easier to spot when a woman is aroused. Because the clitoris does not need to be erect for sexual intercourse to occur, clitoral orgasms will only happen if the woman is aroused properly. That means some type of foreplay is generally a requirement. When the clitoris is stimulate repeatedly, it becomes more engorged with blood and this further heightens its sensitivity. With another stimulation a point is reached when all of the tension in the area must be released and this point is considered the orgasm.

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2008-08-13T10:33:00.000-07:00

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Kamasutra #23: Standing Rear Attack

2008-08-09T07:59:00.000-07:00

This position is very suitable for spontaneous urges to make love as it is able to be done just by loosening of the clothes. It is good for fast exciting sex, giving both partners the opportunity to thrust against one another.

The woman stands with her back to her partner, her knees bent. Her arms can be crossed on the back, lean on a wall or to any piece of furniture to support herself. The man enters her from behind and controls the movement, stimulating her clitoris and breasts with his hands. Penetration will be deep, stimulating the front walls of the vagina and G spot. In addition, the field of view of the man includes the anus, the buttocks and the highly erogenic back zones for many. The domination that it exerts and the total relaxation of her can favor the playing of the man with the anus of her: to introduce a finger during the sex can enormously be exciting. This is also a great position for anal sex.

Instead of having the woman lean to a wall or any furniture, the male can lean to the wall while the female anchors her hands onto her knees for better support. Another alternative is to have both partner standing without any furniture or wall support, the female can also reach for the floor with her hands while bending down and keeping the knees slightly bent.

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Having Sex on an Office Chair

2008-08-09T01:09:00.000-07:00

Office chairs come in all shapes and sizes. Many managers and upper-level executives have large chairs with thick padding, while cubicle workers may have smaller chairs with partial backs and no arms. No matter what kind of office chair you have, however, it can likely be pressed into service any time you want to have sex at work.

Things You’ll Need:

Private location
Sturdy office chair

See whether the chair is sturdy enough to support sexual activity. This means checking all the chair's bolts and screws to ensure they are tight. You should also test the chair for overall structural integrity. After all, you want to be relatively confident it won't break while you're using it.
Place the chair against a wall. Most office chairs need some kind of support from the back in order to keep them from tipping over while you're having sex in them. If at all possible, choose a wall that faces the outside of the building, so as not to cause any embarrassing thuds that may be heard inside.
Close and lock your office door and cover up any open windows. Absolute privacy is essential in situations such as these. Few things could be more potentially damaging to your career than getting caught having sex at the office.
Wear your shirt at all times. There's no reason to get totally undressed for office sex and many people actually find it sexier to remain partially clothed. If you're wearing a skirt, you can probably keep that on, too. Just hike it up enough that you don't get tangled in it.
Have the larger partner sit on the chair. The smaller partner should then straddle the person doing the sitting. If the chair has arms, the straddler's legs are going to have to be maneuvered into the spaces between the chair arms and the seat.

Tips and Warnings:

Office chairs are versatile, and they are perfect for a wide variety of alternative sexual activities. For example, you can have sex standing up, with one person leaning against the back of the office chair (this is good for front-to-front as well as front-to-back positions). Using an office chair can make oral sex more expedient and can be an excellent prop for giving an erotic spanking.

To help prevent injury, avoid using swivel chairs or chairs with wheels on the legs when engaging in sex. The best office chairs for having sex are relatively immobile.

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Finding Men's G Spot

2008-08-09T00:51:00.000-07:00

Most people have heard of the female G spot. In fact, many women have even experienced an orgasm caused by G spot stimulation. Have you, however, heard of the male G spot? There is a similar spot on the male body that has the same effect: the prostate. If you thought there was nothing sexy about the prostate gland, think again. When stimulated, it can send your man over the top. Here is the best way to find your man's G spot.

Things You’ll Need:

An Open mind
Lubricant

How to Find the G Spot on a Man

Introduce the idea of a male G spot with your partner. It will require anal stimulation so you both need to be game. Ask him if he wants to experiment a bit and get the ultimate sexual sensation.
Apply a liberal amount of lubricant to your middle or index finger. Anal penetration can be an entirely different sensation than one has ever felt before. It is best to limit friction.
Draw gentle, massage-like circles around the rim of his anus. This will help the anal muscles relax and get your man used to touching in this area.
Slowly insert your lubricated finger inside your partner's anus. Only put it in half way in the beginning. Make in and out motions until you are eventually inside all the way. If he seems to be enjoying it, maintain your G spot quest.
Create a beckoning motion with your finger. Press up and towards yourself. You will feel his prostate. This is his G spot. Apply a generous amount of pressure to this area. You will immediately see if your partner enjoys this sensation or not.

Tips & Warnings

Make sure he has washed his anal area before you begin your g spot quest.
Stop G spot pressure immediately if your partner does not appear to enjoy it. The sensation can be strange for some men.

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Kamasutra #22: Standing Suspended Congress

2008-08-07T15:11:00.000-07:00

“When a man supports himself against a wall, and the woman, sitting on his hands joined together and held underneath her, throws her arms round his neck, and putting her thighs alongside his waist, moves herself by her feet, which are touching the wall against which the man is leaning, it is called the ‘suspended congress’.”

A variant of the earlier standing position or vice-versa. It’s also good for quickies but quite strenuous. The penetrating partner stands, holding the receiving partner off the ground. The receiving partner wraps their legs around the giver’s waist and their arms around their shoulders.

The specifics:

The couple leans on a wall. The male’s back usually gets to face the wall. The male should lean in an angle where his feet are several inches away from the wall. (If he decides to keep it close to the wall, the couple might fall over while in this position)
The man holds his partner in his arms.
The woman wraps her legs around his waist and her arms round his shoulders. She should grab on to his neck area firmly.
The woman moves against him by pulling herself up and down while the man helps her with his arms. She should push against the wall with her feet while doing this action.

For more support and deeper penetration, they can change position where she rests her back against the wall. This is a position which can be done anywhere; at any time. The only disadvantage is that the man needs to be very strong to support his partner.

Remember that it’s a strenuous position and not for the feint of heart, or arm, or legs, or back, so… if the giver is middle aged and not in great shape, then may want to skip this position.

If the man finds it difficult to grab her from underneath for support, he can instead lock his arms together.

This position is also known as Stand and Carry Position.

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Kamasutra #21: Standing Congress

2008-08-07T15:02:00.000-07:00

“When a man and a woman support themselves on each other's bodies, or on a wall, or pillar, and thus while standing engage in congress, it is called the `supported congress'.”

A great anywhere-anytime position for impromptu sex, especially for quickies. This position refers to penetration with both partners standing face to face. Making love while standing can be difficult if the male is taller than the woman but easier if the woman is wearing heels, or is taller than her partner. The problem can be alleviated by spreading his legs wide to compensate for the height difference and or bending his knees slightly. Also, she can help in the process by standing on tip-toe. If it proves to be very difficult to maintain the position, a table or work surface at the required height would do! The female can wrap one of her legs around her partner’s waist or allow his partner to hold it up for her to allow deeper penetration. If the receiver is very flexible, you may want to try putting the raised leg onto the shoulder of the giver for an even more erotic experience. As an alternative, you can use a wall for support.

When leaning on a wall (either by the woman’s or the man’s back), the couple can achieve a firm support to aid in a more vigorous thrusting.

Holding her thighs during the coitus either if it’s hanging by his waist or placed down can help aid in controlling the movements of intercourse and make her experience a lot more stimulating sex.

Having her legs raised to hang by your waist or by your shoulders also provide a sexy feeling for her plus it promotes deep penetration.

When there’s no wall to support your exploits while standing, vigorous thrusting can affect drastically the pleasure you’ll get from this position since you’ll be more concerned with your balance rather than the sensation of the process.

Also known as The Visitors, Belly to Belly, and Dancer (there’s a lot more actually, but are we interested in these names better than knowing how to do the position itself?).

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Paris "BlowJob" Hilton

2008-08-07T10:25:00.000-07:00

Hilton was engaged to fashion model Jason Shaw from mid-2002 to early 2003. In 2003-2004 she had a relationship with singer Nick Carter. Later she was engaged to Greek shipping heir Paris Latsis, from May 29, 2005 to November 2005. Thereafter, she began dating another Greek shipping heir, Stavros Niarchos III, before breaking up in May 2006. She is currently dating the guitarist of the band Good Charlotte, Benji Madden.

In May 2008, Hilton announced her intention to marry Madden during a gushing interview with television talk-show host David Letterman. Hilton waxed lyrical about what a great couple they were, while flashing his initials in bling on her ring finger.

Hilton told Live with Regis and Kelly: "One-night stands are not for me. I think it's gross when you just give it up. Guys want you more, if you don't just hand it to them on a platter."

Hilton loves small dogs, and owns a Yorkshire Terrier and a female Chihuahua named Tinkerbell. Hilton is frequently seen carrying Tinkerbell (dubbed an "accessory dog") at social events and functions, and in all five seasons of television reality show The Simple Life. In 2004, Tinkerbell "authored" a memoir, The Tinkerbell Hilton Diaries. On August 12, 2004, Tinkerbell went missing after Hilton's apartment was burgled, and a $5,000 reward was offered for her safe return. She was found six days later. By December 1, 2004, Tinkerbell was again spotted with Paris Hilton at various events. Hilton has also purchased a male Chihuahua on July 25, 2007 from Pets of Bel Air in Los Angeles.

A homemade sex video of Hilton and then-boyfriend Rick Salomon was leaked on the Internet in 2003, later released as the DVD 1 Night in Paris despite attempted legal action. It appeared a week prior to the premiere of The Simple Life.

Paris Hilton has been quoted as saying that she is the "iconic blonde of the decade"' and compared herself to Princess Diana and Marilyn Monroe (a claim she denied in the May 2007 issue of Harper's Bazaar). She will reportedly appear in the 2007 [dated info] Guinness World Records as the world's "Most Overrated Celebrity". In a poll conducted by the Associated Press and AOL, Hilton was voted the second "Worst Celebrity Role Model of 2006", behind Britney Spears. Critics suggest that Hilton epitomizes the title of famous for being famous; echoing that sentiment, the Associated Press conducted what they called an experiment in February 2007, trying not to report on Hilton for a whole week.

Hilton recently posed nude, covered in gold paint, to promote "Rich Prosecco", a canned version of an Italian sparkling wine. In August 2008, Ms. Hilton released a satiric video stating that she would run in the 2008 US Presidential Elections. The video was a response to a John McCain campaign advertisement comparing the celebrity of Democratic nominee Barack Obama to Hilton, in which images of the celebrity were used without her knowledge. McCain spokesman Tucker Bounds praised the video, jokingly saying that "Paris has a more substantive energy plan than Barack Obama."

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Lindsay Lohan Biography

2008-08-07T02:54:00.000-07:00

Lindsay Morgan Lohan was born in New York City on July 2, 1986. Her mother Dina is a former Radio City "Rockette" while her father Michael was a long-time Wall Street trader before he struck it rich with a family pasta business. He has now redirected his energies into film development and producing.

Along with her three younger siblings, Michael, Aliana and Dakota, Lindsay Lohan was raised in Long Island. Lindsay was such a natural beauty that she began modeling at the age of 3. In fact, she was the first redheaded child ever signed by the renowned Ford Modeling Agency.

But Lindsay Lohan wasn't just a pretty child; she was also talented. Capitalizing on her flair for performing, she was cast in over 60 TV commercials for companies such as Abercrombie & Fitch, Wendy's, the Gap, Pizza Hut, Calvin Klein, and Jell-O, in which she shared the screen with Bill Cosby. When she was 7, Lindsay Lohan was required to dress up as garbage for a Halloween skit on the Late Show with David Letterman called "Things You Find on the Bottom of the Subway." It was her first real acting job.

Lindsay Lohan in parent trap
In 1996, Lindsay Lohan got her second big break when she was cast on the long-running NBC soap opera Another World. For only one season, she became the third actress to portray Alexandra "Alli" Fowler.

Shortly after, she hit the highway to fame when Disney sought to remake the hugely successful family comedy The Parent Trap (1998). There was a six-month casting search and in January 1997, Lindsay Lohan got a phone call from director Nancy Meyers to announce that she had received the role that Hayley Mills made popular in the early '60s.

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In addition, she also got a three-picture deal with Disney thanks to this movie. Although she turned down the part of Penny in Inspector Gadget (1999), her next move was to appear in the Wonderful World of Disney production of Life-Size (2000), a comedy also featuring supermodel Tyra Banks.

In 2000, Bette Midler was slated to star in a new sitcom called Bette, and Lindsay Lohan was cast as her daughter, Rose. But once the pilot was shot, the producers decided to move the production from New York to Los Angeles. Wanting to stay in New York, Lindsay left the sitcom. The show moved to California, actress Marina Malota replaced Lindsay Lohan and 16 episodes later, Bette was canceled.

This left Lindsay Lohan with some free time and she spent it shooting the Disney Channel Original Movie of the Month, Get a Clue (2002), in which she played a snooty school gossip columnist out to discover what happened to a missing teacher. After shooting, she took a short break from acting.

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During this period, Lindsay Lohan decided to concentrate on her musical career. Having been in the entertainment industry for most of her life, she received quite a few useful phone numbers over the years. In September 2002, music heavyweight Emilio Estefan Jr. took Lindsay under his wing. She signed a five-album deal with Estefan Enterprises. In 2005, she released her debut album, Speak, followed by A Little More Personal the next year.

Lindsay Lohan stars in mean girls
Next on her plate was another remake of a Disney classic. Along with Jamie Lee Curtis, Lindsay Lohan was cast in Freaky Friday (2003) and reprised one of the early roles that made Jodie Foster a household name.

The body-swapping fantasy grossed over $100 million and allowed Lindsay Lohan to showcase her singing abilities in the movie. In fact, it's because of her song "Ultimate" that the soundtrack was propelled to Billboard's Top 20 in less than three weeks.

Lindsay Lohan got back in the acting saddle with the critically and financially disappointing Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen (2004). A few months later, she made everyone forget about it by starring in the hit Mean Girls (2004), alongside Rachel McAdams, Lacey Chabert and Amanda Seyfried.

Lindsay Lohan personal life
Lohan and Hilary Duff became bitter enemies in 2002 when they simultaneously dated Aaron Carter; the feud continued for five years. However, in 2007, Lohan and Duff put the dispute behind them and became friends. Lohan has also dated Wilmer Valderrama, Harry Morton and Calum Best. While seeking treatment at the Cirque Lodge in Utah, Lohan met and began dating Riley Giles; however, in late November, 2007, it was announced that they had split up. Lohan's mother, Dina Lohan said, "[Riley] took desperate measures to hurt Lindsay because she broke up with him".

Lohan has had a series of car accidents that have been widely reported, with minor crashes in August 2004, October 2005, and November 2006, when Lohan suffered minor injuries because a paparazzo who was following her for a photograph hit her car. Police called the crash intentional, but prosecutors said there was not enough evidence to file criminal charges.

Lohan is also well known on the celebrity party scene. In a letter to Lohan and others associated with the filming of Georgia Rule that was later made public, James G. Robinson, CEO of the film's production company, Morgan Creek Productions, wrote:

You and your representatives have told us that your various late arrivals and absences from the set have been the result of illness; today we were told it was 'heat exhaustion'. We are well aware that your ongoing all night heavy partying is the real reason for your so-called 'exhaustion'.

On January 18, 2007, Lohan checked herself in to the Wonderland Center rehabilitation facility in West Hollywood. Through her representative, she issued a statement saying, "I have made a proactive decision to take care of my personal health." On May 26, 2007, Lohan lost control of her car and ran the vehicle up a curb. Police also found a "usable" amount of cocaine in her car and the police lab detected cocaine in her blood. After receiving treatment for minor injuries, Lohan was arrested on a misdemeanor charge of driving under the influence of alcohol. Two days later, Lohan entered the Promises Treatment Centers rehabilitation facility in Malibu, staying for 45 days.

On July 24, 2007 the police found Lohan by the parking lot of the Santa Monica Civic Auditorium, having a "heated debate" with her former assistant who was fired several hours earlier. After failing field sobriety tests Lohan was taken to a police station where her blood alcohol level was found to be above the legal limit. While conducting a search, the police found a small amount of cocaine in her pocket. Lohan was booked on a felony charge of possession of cocaine and misdemeanor charges of driving under the influence and driving with a suspended license.

On August 23, 2007 Lohan pleaded guilty to cocaine use and driving under the influence and was sentenced to one day in jail and 10 days community service. She was also ordered to pay fines and complete an alcohol education program, and was placed on three years probation. “It is clear to me that my life has become completely unmanageable because I am addicted to alcohol and drugs,” Lohan said in a statement.

In 2008, several media outlets began commenting on Lohan and Samantha Ronson, who were regularly seen being affectionate in public. In July 2008, several newspapers, including The Times and Los Angeles Times, published opinion pieces describing their relationship as romantic. Lohan has yet to comment on the exact nature of their relationship, stating through her publicist that she "wants to keep her private life private." When pressed by a paparazzo to deny the rumors, Ronson responded, "Are you retarded?"

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Jennifer Aniston Biography

2008-08-07T02:12:00.000-07:00

See also: Jennifer Aniston's nude pictures on GQ cover

Jennifer Joanne Aniston (her original last name was Anastassakis, but her family changed it when they moved to the U.S. from Greece) was born February 11, 1969 in Sherman Oaks, California, USA. She is a American actress perhaps best-known for playing Rachel Green on the television sitcom Friends.

Jennifer Aniston was born into a famous family. Her father, John Aniston, has been a cast member of Days of Our Lives since the mid-'80s, and her mom was a model and part-time actress. And even though John Aniston had a successful acting career, he was reluctant about Jennifer's desire to go into acting. Well, it's safe to say she proved him wrong.

By the time the pilot for a new NBC show called Friends came along in 1994, Jennifer Aniston was trying to make her mark in Hollywood. With the 1993 bomb Leprechaun as the biggest credit on her resume, however, Jennifer had nothing to lose and auditioned for Friends. The producers originally wanted Aniston to audition for the role of neurotic chef Monica Gellar, but Jennifer thought she was more of a "Rachel Green" -- and she was right. The role of Monica went to fellow hottie Courteney Cox.

Friends became a huge hit as part of NBC's "Must-See TV" lineup, and the six cast members became TV's hottest stars. Thanks to the "Ross and Rachel" plot and Jennifer's haircut -- which became known as "the Rachel cut" -- Jennifer Aniston became a household name (and haircut).

In the meantime, Jenifer Aniston's star rose to the stratosphere when she and Brad Pitt appeared together at awards shows and premieres. Although she had already been romantically linked to Counting Crows vocalist Adam Duritz and actor Tate Donovan, her relationship with Pitt made Jennifer part of one of Hollywood's top "It" couples.

On July 29, 2000, Jennifer and Brad exchanged vows at a Malibu estate, in a million-dollar wedding that was hailed as "the showbiz wedding of the year." Their divorce was finalized in October 2005.

Following her breakup with Brad Pitt, Jennifer Aniston found comfort with her The Break-Up (2006) costar Vince Vaughn. And though the pair formally announced that they were no longer dating in November 2006, Jennifer's statement also clarified that the two thespians would remain friends.

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Lindsay Lohan Naked Pictures

2008-08-06T08:44:00.000-07:00

Lohan naked pictures were shot by Bert Stern who shot the original series with Monroe, now known as The Last Sitting, in 1962 and appear in the latest issue of New York Magazine.

Shes saying, Look, youve taken a lot from me, so why dont I give it to you myself. Shes taking control back. Like any tabloid veteran, Lohan understands the potency of a photograph, and that the best way to respond to a society that views you only as an image might just be on its own terms.

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2008-08-04T09:35:00.000-07:00

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Chanelle Hayes - Sex Tape

2008-08-01T22:39:00.000-07:00

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World Record for Orgasm Claimed

2008-08-01T11:10:00.000-07:00

With World Youth Day over and done with, it's time for topless pole dancing, strip poker and a world record number of female orgasms.

Just days after Pope Benedict XVI blessed hundreds of thousands of devoted Catholic pilgrims at Randwick Racecourse, sin has returned to Sydney with Sexpo set to celebrate the city's carnal side.

Organizers of the event, which opened on Thursday at the Hordern Pavilion and Royal Hall of Industries, hope to attract a record crowd of 55,000 over four days.

Aside from the usual colourful melange of vibrators, candy undies, fluffy handcuffs, kinky boots and nurses outfits - as well as helpful advice on safe sex and sexual problems - there is plenty of opportunity for active participation.

Female attendees are even offered a free orgasm.

With the help of three pink, knobby, vibrating chairs, Sex Machines Australia will be totting up the number of (fully-clothed) women who orgasm on their electronic scoreboard, or "orgasm counter".

The score to beat is 172, which was achieved over four days at the Brisbane event and has set in motion a contest dubbed the "new State of Origin".

The machine attracts women from 18 through to 70, according to Sex Machines Australia.

And the success rate is high.

"If the girl wants to have an orgasm, probably 95 per cent will," said Stuart, who works on the stall.

"Some girls won't let themselves go ... but if we can get the girl to sit on it, close her eyes and relax for a minute, they'll orgasm ... one girl in Brisbane got up to about 10."

Another attraction gaining popularity is the strip poker tournament.

The winning player receives a $20 Sexpo voucher and if they get naked they get a goody bag.

So do people often play until they're naked?

"In Brisbane, they were only allowed to get down to their undies," said the croupier.

"But in Melbourne it was great. Heaps of people got naked."

Then there is the Sexpo show, hosted by Penthouse pin-up Arianna, which will feature dancers on new aerial apparatus to offer an erotic alternative to the Cirque du Soleil's Dralion across the road.

Any remaining World Youth Day pilgrims in Sydney shouldn't feel shunted by the debauchery though.

They get half price tickets into the event and the chance to take confession, unfortunately not to the Pope, but to top international porn stars.

"It would be fantastic to hear their confessions," said porn star Belladonna from Los Angeles, who has been touring Australia for 12 months with Sexpo.

"We all know the sins are there," she added. "And we wanted to give something back to the Pope."

Tim Patch, aka Pricasso, has also paid a papal tribute.

Using just his penis, he has created a colourful painting of the Pope at Sydney Harbour, clad in his robes and draped by two sexy, bikini-clad women.

"It's a collage of everything that happened (for World Youth Day)," said Patch, who will be on hand to paint portraits throughout the event.

"The Harbour Bridge, the Opera House, the Pope on his vacation ... he's only human. I'm sure he thinks about this sort of thing."

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2008-08-01T09:01:00.000-07:00

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Quotes on Confidence

2008-08-01T03:02:00.000-07:00

Robert Kiyosaki:
What you think of me is none of my business. What is most important is what I think of myself.

George Clason:
Luck has a peculiar habit of favoring those who do not depend on it.

Tomas Edison:
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Robert Kiyosaki:
Just as we can learn from our mistakes, we can gain character from our disappointments.

Mark Twain:
Don't go around saying the world owes you a living; the world owes you nothing; it was here first.

Robert Collier:
The self-confidence of a person multiplies their powers a hundredfold.

Mark Twain
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great ones make you feel that you, too, can become great.

Mahatma Gandhi:
Keep your thoughts positive, because thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive, because words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive, because behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive, because habits become your values. Keep your values positive, because values become your destiny.

Thomas Jefferson:
We confide in our strength, without boasting of it; we respect that of others, without fearing it.

Hannibal:
We will either find a way, or make one.

Norman Vincent Peale:
What seems impossible one minute becomes, through faith, possible the next.

Theodore Roethke:
What we need are more people who specialize in the impossible.

Bertrand Russell:
What we need is not the will to believe, but the wish to find out.

Brian Tracy:
Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy.

Brian Tracy:
When you engage in systematic, purposeful action, using and stretching your abilities to the maximum, you cannot help but feel positive and confident about yourself.

Muhammad Ali:
It's lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believe in myself.

Sun Tzu:
Know yourself and you will win all battles.

Helen Keller:
Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.

Thomas Carlyle:
Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment.

George Bernard Shaw:
One man who has a mind and knows it can always beat ten men who haven't and don't.

Norman Vincent Peale:
One of the greatest moments in anybody's developing experience is when he no longer tries to hide from himself but determines to get acquainted with himself as he really is.

Robert F. Kennedy:
Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.

Thomas A. Bennett:
Having once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium and distaste. The gain in self-confidence of having accomplished a tiresome labor is immense.

Napoleon Bonaparte:
He who fears being conquered is sure of defeat.

Anna Freud:
I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.

William Johnson:
If it is to be, it is up to me.

Rosalyn Carter:
If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can't accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.

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If You're Worried Your Spouse is Cheating - Read This Now!

2008-07-31T12:26:00.000-07:00

First of all, I’m sorry you have to read this. Really, I am. I know what it’s like to have a cheating spouse, and I know that feeling when you start to look for the clues. You feel guilty about being here, don’t you? You are scared about what is coming next.

You have every right to be scared. But don’t let yourself feel guilty! If your spouse is cheating, they are the ones doing something wrong, not you. And you have every right to know what is happening behind your trusting back.

If you think your spouse is cheating, start out by making it very clear why you feel that way. Make out a list, on paper, of the reasons you feel uneasy. Putting it down on paper will make it feel more real, and might lead you to remember other clues that you have dismissed or ignored.

Once you’ve done that, look at the things that bother you the most. Is it the time your spouse spends on the phone with someone else? Is it the fact that the long hours don’t show up on the paycheck at the end of the week? Maybe it’s the concern about where they are going after work – and with whom.

Start there. If it’s the phone calls, get a copy of the cell phone records. If it’s the work that concerns you, study the paycheck stubs. If it’s their after-hours fun that you question, drive by the place they said they were going out with the boys.

Then, study what you have. Keep a journal of what your spouse says, versus what you know to be true. If your spouse is cheating, you will soon start to find discrepancies. Little things won’t add up. Timelines will be off just a bit. There will be things in your list that will have no ready explanation.

When you start to see a pattern emerging, track it down. This is when you start to get the rock-solid proof of what your spouse is doing. You will have to dig deeper into those phone records. You will start to look at bank accounts, internet activity, and what their friends have to say about their weekly outings.

You can find out if your partner is cheating, but you have to be methodical. Don’t take a scattered approach! You have a goal to find out what is going on behind your back, so start by writing down the things you believe are happening. You can go from there and eventually, you will have the proof you need.

Then it will be time to confront your spouse with their actions. That’s a whole new ballgame, and it opens up a whole new set of questions. Once you have the proof, what can you expect from the confrontation?

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Keeping The Kamasutra Nice And Simple!

2008-07-31T10:22:00.001-07:00

Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That's right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!

The Scissors

Now I'm sure you have already tried this one. All it entails is for the woman to lie on her back. The man on his knees then proceeds to hold onto her ankle region and spread her legs wide apart. From this position the man does all the work. This position enables a good passage for the man to enter into and he is able to rotate his pelvis in different directions to help stimulate different parts of the woman's vagina. Don't tell me you've haven't tried this one before??

The Scandinavian

The Scandinavian is again very simple Kamasutra position that is often used by couples today. It requires the man to lie on his back to start with. The woman then sits on top facing towards his feet, with her legs rapped over the side of his body. In essence she has her back turned to him. She then does all the work from here, thrusting back and forth, while he holds onto her buttocks and helps to increase the momentum.

This position enables the woman to control the amount sexual pleasure that can be obtained by both participants. If you haven't tried the Scandinavian than give it a go, it's incredibly erotic.

The Tigress

The tigress is a Kamasutra position that is a little more complicated to get into. It requires the man to sit down first. From there she should then proceed to sit on top at a perpendicular angle to her partner. Once she has entered on a right angle she should the hold her legs up at a 45 degree angle, placing her left arm around his right shoulder and using her other arm to support herself on the ground. He should the place his hands under her buttocks and 'do his stuff' from there. I'm sure you'll muck this one up at first, but that's the whole fun of it!

So there are a few Kamasutra positions that are simple yet very erotic at the same time. Make sure you try and have fun with this and don't take it too seriously. That's what modern day Kamasutra is all about in the end, making it enjoyable for both people in the relationship!

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When are Bad Habits Helpful?

2008-07-30T12:10:00.000-07:00

Some bad habits can actually turn out to be helpful. They may cause trouble most of the time. Yet, there are those instances when they seem to fit the situation perfectly. Since most people have at least some bad habits, it is probably good that they have a helpful side.

Some people have bad habits with regards to pointing out others mistakes. They are constantly telling their friends or family members what they are doing wrong. It gets annoying and frustrating for the person being picked on. Quite a bit of resentment can build up over this.

However, there may come a time when the person will actually point out bad habits you have not been aware of before. They may stop you from making a huge mistake. You may not be inclined to fall at their feet and thank them, but you may be glad you heard their criticism nonetheless.

Procrastination is usually one of the most common bad habits. People put off doing what they know they need to do. They plan to do it, just not today. Procrastination can prove to be helpful if the situation changes. If you were planning to water your garden you might procrastinate and put it off until tomorrow. If it rains unexpectedly that night, you have saved both effort and water.

If you complain too much, people will tell you that you have too many bad habits. It does create a negative environment when someone is constantly seeing the worst in everything. However, sometimes the only times you can get anything done are when you complain.

Some bosses manage by the theory that the person that complains the loudest is the person who needs the most attention. In other words, the squeaky wheel gets the grease. When you complain in this situation, you accomplish something.

Working too hard is generally a bad habit. It is bad for your relationships and it is bad for your health. You feel that you will not succeed unless you put in overtime. Mostly, this is not true. Yet, there are times when the extra work can pay off. This is true especially if you allow yourself to indulge this bad habit for only the duration of a short project.

If you are too stubborn, you will be accused of bad habits like demanding to have things the way you see fit. You will not give in until you are satisfied that things are going as they should. This is usually a bad habit. Sometimes, though, it takes the form of tenacity. This is a positive attribute that makes it possible for you to hold on through the hardest of times.

Breaking the law almost always involves bad habits. Theft, drug peddling and use, violence, and many more bad habits come into play. On the other hand, some of the world's greatest heroes have broken the laws of their own countries.

They did it in civil disobedience of laws they deemed unjust or inhumane. The world would be a different place if these people had been afraid of having these "bad habits." That is why not all habits can be strictly labeled bad or good. It has to go by the situation.

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How to Attract Anyone With Hypnotic Seduction

2008-07-30T10:12:00.000-07:00

Hypnotic seduction is a technique used to seduce a person with the use of hypnosis. Ever wondered why some people are able to pick up men or women that they like, even if they don’t have the looks or the money? They might be using hypnotic seduction.

It has been proven time and again that hypnosis does really work; therefore, it is also safe to say that hypnotic seduction is also as effective.

The Basic Principles of Hypnosis

Knowing the basic principles of hypnosis will make it easier to understand how hypnotic seduction works.

Hypnosis works in such a way that it puts a person in a trance-like state, with the use of words or items such as the pendulum. Once in this state, a hypnotized person is now highly susceptible to suggestions.

However, putting a person in such a state is not an easy task. The person to be hypnotized should have the feeling of trust towards you, and should consciously and subconsciously be willing to subject to such experience. Without this, hypnotizing a person will not be possible.

Once in this trance-like state, it is also impossible to suggest to a person ideas that is not innate to him or her. For example, if you suggest a person who is of good moral character to be a thief, the suggestion would most likely just fizzle. This is because you can’t suggest a person to do something that is not natural to him or her.

However, if you suggest that he gives 10% of his salary to the poor every pay day, then it is possible that the person will do it because it is innate to his or her personality to do good things.

To summarize the principles, you can only hypnotize a person who trusts you, and you can only suggest ideas that are already in his or her mind.

Hypnosis And Seduction

Now that you know the basic principles of hypnosis, it is time that we relate it to seduction. It is possible that you can seduce any person you want through hypnosis for as long as you follow the principles.

A good example would be if you meet a person in the library and you want to seduce him or her through hypnosis. The very first course of action that you need to do is to create a warm environment exuding with trust.

You do not want to come on to that person as a threat because if you do, he or she will become guarded; thus, hypnosis won’t work.

Now that you have created your environment of trust, it is time to make the person take interest in you. If you can create just even a small spark of attraction, then you can use hypnotic seduction to strengthen that feeling.

Hypnotic seduction has been proven effective. There are some people who have not been successful with this because they think what they are trying to do is unethical mind control – it is not. You need to abide by the basic principles of hypnosis to be able to effectively use hypnotic seduction.

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Why Do Most Marriages Fail?

2008-07-30T09:56:00.000-07:00

Roughly 50% of all marriages fail and many of those dont even make it past the first year. Understanding why these marriages fail can be key to ensuring that your own marriage does not fail. Some factors that contribute to the failure of a marriage include a lack of communication or poor communication, financial issues and even the circumstances of the marriage. All of these issues can exist in a healthy and enduring marriage but if they are not dealt with properly they can lead to the failure of the marriage.

Communication is critical to the success of a marriage. Without proper communication, conflict resolution becomes a difficult issue. If the couple lacks the communication skills necessary to resolve their problems, then even the smallest problems will become insurmountable. Communication allows a relationship to grow and thrive by giving the partners an opportunity to share their dreams, concerns, hopes and desires with each other. Without sharing in this way a couple will not grow as close together as possible. Communication also gives the couple a healthy way to resolve their arguments.

If one or both partners lack effective communications skills it becomes difficult to resolve arguments because the couple is not able to understand each others points of view.

If the marriage is already in trouble, both partners in the marriage must be dedicated to working on their communication skills in order to improve or salvage their marriage. The absence of effective communication techniques can lead to the failure of a marriage.

Love may conquer all but sometimes even love isnt enough to save a marriage when there are significant financial concerns. While financial concerns in and of themselves may not be the cause of a failed marriage the tension that financial concerns create is often the culprit in a failed marriage. Financial concerns can be a heavy burden to bear and when a couple is struggling to meet their financial obligations, there can be a tremendous amount of pressure in the relationship. This pressure may be enough to destroy an otherwise healthy marriage.

If one of the partners in the marriage becomes obsessed with the marital finances they can begin to neglect other aspects of the marriage. This neglectful behavior has the affect of making the spouse feel ignored and lonely which can be damaging to a marriage. Often one of the partners will become consumed with the financial affairs and this can be very damaging to a marriage.

Even the circumstances surrounding the marriage can lead to its failure. A marriage of convenience is often not a healthy marriage. When the decision to marry is based on something other than true love, it is likely that the marriage will fair. Some examples of marriage circumstances that often lead to failure are getting married because there is a baby on the way or because the couple is feeling pressure to get married by friends and family members. Neither of these reasons are truly valid reasons for marriage and often leads to divorce. When a couple marries for reasons other than true love the marriage is often doomed before it starts.

Marrying too young is another reason why many marriages fail. While the right age to marry varies greatly depending on the person, many people argue that the teens and early twenties are too early to get married. Getting married before you have had a chance to enjoy many of lifes experiences can result in resentfulness in the marriage and can be the cause of failure of the marriage.

Another reason why many marriages fail is that society no longer places importance on the institution of marriage. Today it is common for couples to live together and have children without being married. This degeneration of society devalues marriage and results in a higher percentage of failed marriages. With so little value placed on marriage in todays society, couples are not committed to making their marriage work and are often quick to give up on the marriage and each other.

Many marriages today are doomed before they even start. Marriage is no longer seen as a necessary step in a relationship so many couples are quick to divorce without making an honest effort to resolve their problems. Communication breakdown, financial difficulties as well as circumstances of the marriage are all problems that can cause many marriages to fail.

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What's your favorite sex position?

2008-07-28T13:42:00.000-07:00

According to an iVillage poll, there’s one position that ranks high above the rest - and it’s very surprising. Over 200 women have taken the “What’s Your Favorite Sexual Position” poll in the last couple of days, having the option to pick either:

A) Missionary/Man on top,
B) Woman on top,
C) Doggy Style or the ever-elusive
D) Other.

You wanna know what choice is ahead on the polls as of this posting? Doggy Style!!

Now, maybe this doesn’t surprise you, but I’m certainly taken back. I had no idea that so many women genuinely enjoyed this position.

It’s always seemed like men get the most pleasure from this position, especially since it lets us feel all powerful and caveman like. But as the results show, women too find it the most pleasurable as well. Call it deeper penetration, call it a woman’s want to be dominated, call it whatever you would like - I call it good news for men with a booty fetish.

New positions always add some excitement to the relationship, interesting positions are fun to try as far as foreplay goes, but when it comes down to having an orgasm, I'm a preferred the more traditional ones. How about you? What's your favorite sex position?

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Kamasutra: Position #20

2008-07-28T12:00:00.001-07:00

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Kamasutra: Position #17

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Kamasutra: Position #16

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2008-07-28T11:26:00.001-07:00

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The Stunning Underground Technique to Find Her G-spot

2008-07-26T08:38:00.000-07:00

Nothing can pleasure a woman more and make her orgasm extremely faster other than her g spot. If you master the art of stimulating the g spot you will instantly become the ultimate master women would drool over. A lot of guys don't exactly know where the g spot is and at the same time they also do not realize that there is a secret technique using which you can instantly stimulate her g spot and make her orgasm. Read on to discover what this stunning technique is and how you can make her orgasm faster as well......

So what can a g spot exactly do to a woman? - Well you must ask what it can not do when it comes to sexual pleasure. G spot is the ultimate button which when pressed leads to enormous spurts of pleasure in a woman. Effective stimulation of the g spot can make a woman orgasm within matter of a few seconds and often can also help her achieve multiple orgasms one after the other. This is probably the major reason why every guy must know where this g spot is and how to stimulate it effectively.

So where is it? - This spot is 1-2 inches inside the entry of her vaginal area right under the pubic bone. This spot would feel different to the rest of the vagina and would have some what a different feel to it. When you stimulate this spot you will feel a small pea like object beginning to form up. This is the sign that she is rising in her levels of arousal.

Here is the secret technique- Gently insert your finger into her vagina and try to use your fingers to go in an up and down motions. Most guys go in an in and out motion which doesn't really stimulate her g spot. When you go up and down it directly stimulates her g-spot and you would see instant effects.

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Finding, Locating and Stimulating The G Spot

2008-07-25T02:05:00.000-07:00

The g-spot is a bean shaped group of nerves tissues located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and position of the g-spot differs from women to women, but it is usually about the size of a quarter, and lies 2-3 inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. Women sometimes cannot find their own g-spot. Here are some tips to help all women.

Technique for Finding the G-Spot

Right ladies make sure you are relaxed and comfortable and plenty of time set aside to give your time to explore and experiment.

Ladies lay down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed with a small pillow under your buttocks.
Then insert your lubricated fingers into your vagina towards your navel about 2 inches inside your vagina.
Press with either one or two fingers against the front wall of your vagina applying a little more pressure than usual, as the g-spot is surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall.
Move your fingers from side to side until you start to feel when that you are hitting the right spot. It should feel ridged unlike the rest of the vagina that is smooth. It will then as a result through stimulation swell and firm like the erectile tissue in a penis.

How to Self-Pleasure Yourself to a G-Spot Orgasm

First of all please empty your bladder before self-love as women do get a feeling to urinate when the g-spot is first stimulated as we recorded earlier.

Girls to directly stimulate the g-spot lay on your back with your feet flat on the floor with your legs apart. Using the thumb of one hand start stimulating the clitoris, then girls slowly insert two finger as far as possible into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening until, pressuring upward with the tips of your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are more sharply upwards your can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vagina walls.

To increase the pleasure thrust your hand in and out simulating penis intercourse then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the g-spot is involved. If you want to really get yourself all hot a bothered remember to stimulate the clitoris as well or use the other hand to touch other erotic zones such as the nipples.

What to Remember When Stimulating the G-Spot

Women need firm pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm and friction to have g-spot orgasms.
Women may ejaculate a small amount of a white clear fluid when she has a g-spot orgasm.
Please be careful girls and short nail are recommended.
It may help to use a water based lubricant and wash you hands thoroughly with hot soapy water afterwards.

G-Spot Tips

Variety is the spice of life so experiment with using smooth, round beads placed in the fingertips of some latex gloves (use a water based lubricant because oil based lubes break down latex gloves) to provide more intense sensations when the hand is inserted into the vagina.

Another extra tip that isn't do to with self-pleasure but I though I would like to add is to say rear-entry/doggy position is the best during intercourse to stimulate the g-spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on the top and a pillow beneath the hips.

The G-Spot Conclusion

The g-spot really does exist and with only a little patience and experimentation any girl can soon understand the power and excitement that g-spot stimulation can accomplish. There are techniques that involve using a dildo to simulate the penis in vaginal intercourse that really can be fun when self-pleasuring concentrating on the g-spot. Using the dildo instead of your fingers as in the methods explained above.

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Discover the Most Amazing Orgasms of your Life

2008-07-17T01:10:00.000-07:00

G spot full of history and commonly known as the mysterious and elusive phenomena which delivers the most intense orgasm known to women, the g spot is nothing short of amazing, and it's not as complex or as hard to find as you may believe. The g spot is actually quite easy to find if you know what you're looking for. Find it and you will give your partner an unforgettable experience of immense sexual pleasure. Pleasuring a women g spot can be the key to an amazing sexual relationship.

A Basic Woman's Anatomy
The location of the g spot (specifically the Grafenberg spot named after the German doctor who first found it and documented it) is inside the woman's vagina, just behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra.

The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you'll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn't, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.

Once inside the vagina, and using a well-lubricated finger as a probe, proceed about 4 inches straight in. Do not go too far inside the vagina, as you will come to the cervix, which is the mouth of the uterus. You have passed the g-spot if you are already there. Put pressure on the top wall of the vagina (the top borders the bladder, and the bottom borders the rectum) and you will feel some tissue that is somewhat rougher than the tissue around it. Therein lies the g-spot, or most of it. A nice way to reach this area and to stimulate the g spot, is to sort of curl your fingers back towards you, as to imitate a come here motion. This is also a very good technique during cunnilingus, and has a very positive effect on a woman's ability to orgasm and re-orgasm in quick succession.

G-Spot Stimulation
Pleasuring a women's g spot doesn't have to be an intimidating task. If you have fingers, or an average penis, and can hold an erection, you can stimulate the g-spot and bring your lady partner to a profound orgasm.

There isn't one best position to hit the g spot but there are a lot of great positions you can use to stimulate the g spot and it may take a few tries to conquer them but if you experiment and have fun you will find something you love. Here are a few g spot stimulating positions we recommend.

In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you keep an open mind and communicate. We've found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.

With the man sitting on the edge of a bed or sofa, and a woman mounted on top of him, with her legs wrapped around his back, adapt the depth of the penis in the vagina to near the g spot. No thrusting is necessary or required here. Just maintain the erection, press as hard as you can from the pelvic area, so the penis puts pressure on the g-spot. The rest is all automatic from the female, and soon she will arrive at a deep and satisfying orgasm. This position also stimulates the woman's clitoris, and this double stimulation brings about this great female orgasm.
There's something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences. As you are on top, experiment with what feels best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feels good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. Now, as the guy in this position, you're not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do, just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better. This can be quite tiring so you can try to use a few pillows to angle your hips, or even better, you can enjoy something called the wedge, which is a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work. I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference.
One of our favorite g spot positions is doggy style. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there's just something so primal and sexy about taking or being taken from behind. In this position men can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that work best for you. However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind). For the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher. This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best. The liberator shape - the wedge - works amazingly in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.
Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman's Legs on His Shoulders). We love this sex position. With many g spot positions you can't look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner's shoulders can be the most comfortable (its also just super sexy!)

Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table. Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)

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How to Deal with a Jealous Girlfriend

2008-07-16T03:32:00.000-07:00

Jealousy is a whole bundle of feelings that tend to get lumped together. It is one of the most destructive and painful emotions in a dating relationship. Jealousy is about fear of losing power of control in a relationship. Jealousy is sweet sometimes, but in moderation. Too much jealousy can destroy a relationship, because is driving a wedge between the two.

You have a relationship for a long time with an amazing girl, you love her very much, but the problem is that she is very jealous and that's why you are arguing a lot. You don't want to lose her so you have to deal with it.

But she is over reacting: she calls you in the middle of the night to make sure that you are at home, she is checking your mobile phone, calls you when you go out with your friends to see where you are and how much you stay or becomes very angry when she sees you looking or talking with any other girl. Also she gets suspicious and make accusations which are not all heartfelt, it's teasing you a lot, accuse you of being unfaithful even if there is no basis for her to think this way. After a while you are enough of all this, but you are ready to make all the sacrifices you can to understand her and make her stop with all these.

There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel. Jealousy comes from insecurity. Maybe she is afraid that you will see another girl and suddenly like her more that you like her. So, try to not give her many reasons to feel jealous. Avoid looking at other girls in her presence, don’t compare her with other girls, don't exclude her from your future plans and also avoid having female best friends. If you have already a best female friend and don't want to lose any of them, you should try meeting them both and making them become friends.

No matter the reasons why she feels jealous, you should try to understand why she feels that way. As an example, maybe she can't deal with the fact that before her you had a girlfriend, your first girlfriend with whom you stayed more than with her, you loved her, but all is over because she betrayed you. But your actual girlfriend doesn't want to accept that, and continues to be jealous on her. Explain her that she has to accept that we all have a past and move on because that past isn't going to change, and assure her that she is the only one for you.

Maybe all of us which have a relationship for some time and love their partner are sometimes a little jealous. Think about it: how would you feel to see her at school or work talking with other guys, and comes and tells you how great they are, wouldn't you be jealous? Or maybe there are some people around her that you don't like and don't trust in them, and then you see that you are jealous too. A little bit of jealousy is healthy, but in her case, which is over reacting, she may need some help from you to get over it.

The best thing you can do to deal with your jealous girlfriend and to not break up with her is to talk sincere with her and tell her how you feel. Also be faithful to her and explain her that you know that relationships are based on trust so you are going to be sincere with her all the time. Communicate sincerely and with calm and tell her she needs to get her self – esteem in check, because she is splinting you apart. Having a heart to heart discussion and explain her that all this jealous behavior will drive you away. Often an honest exchange of feelings will solve the problem.

The jealousy often ruined the relationship because it push away the other partner more and more with every fight and argue they had; after some time the partner which is accused all the time had enough and leave. But if you really love her and want that your relationship continues, make an agree both, to stop arguing so much. You will not give her so many reasons to be jealous, and she will try to not call you so many times a day.

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The Female Sex Drive - Tips For Better Sex

2008-07-15T10:43:00.000-07:00

Did you know that as much as 46% of women are unhappy with their sex life? Much of this is due to sexual frustration and low female sex drive. There are many causes for low female sex drive and part of that is due to the fact that the female sex drive is more sensitive to environmental, physical, and psychological influences than men.

So how do you increase a female's sex drive? The answer is by working with some of the major causes that lower female sexual desire. Let's take a look.

1. Stress and Low Female Sex Drive

As mentioned above stress has a great impact on the female drive. When your woman is thinking about work, kids, or finances her mind is overwhelmed with anxiety that sex is the farthest thing on her mind. However, this is important to increasing the female sex drive.

It is said that a woman must first convince herself to want sex before she is ready for it. Yes, this is true. Recall those times when sex was painful for her? This is because when the brain receives arousal signals it prepares her body for sex.

Her vaginal fluids and the depth of the vagina increase in order to accommodate penetration. When a woman is not in the mood, all those bodily changes that require her to enjoy sex don't occur thus she experiences pain and discomfort during sex. This creates a negative experience about sex and could cause her to resent it.

Therefore, the key for better sex first starts in the mind. Help your woman relax and de-stress so that she is more open to intimacy and sexual advances. Have her take on activities to de-stress like yoga or work to make her day a little easier by giving her a hand with household chores. Although this may sound simple, a huge cause for low female sex drive is psychological ones such as stress. Combating stress is the first step to re-igniting her sexual spark.

2. Female Sex Drive Enhancers

Physical influences such as low genital blood flow are one of the major causes for low sex drive and performance in men and women. This discovery prompted many developments in sexual enhancement products. Soon products like Viagra and Enzyte were available for men to increase genital blood flow, sexual performance, and arousal. But what about women? Women too suffer from these causes and want to enhance their sex life as well.

Now, new female sex drive enhancers work to increase female arousal and ability to orgasm by stimulating clitoral blood flow. How do they work? These libido enhancers use L-Arginine, a natural amino acid which works to increase clitoral blood flow and sensitivity. This promotes sexual arousal in women and her ability to orgasm.

L-arginine cream instantly works to increase clitoral blood blow and is applied right before sex. Within a minute you will feel a tingly sensation and be highly aroused. As clitoral blood flow increase so does your ability to orgasm. Consider libido enhancers such as Femelle to increase your female sex drive.

3. Female Sex Drive Mood Lifters

Because women are so sensitive to their environment, taking the time to set the mood can really help to turn her on. Play romantic or relaxing music at home, light some candles, turn off your cell phones and eliminate distractions. Create an environment of intimacy. This could be as simple as buying satin sheets so that the bed looks more like a place for sex and not for sleep.

A great technique for setting the mood is giving her a massage. You don't have to be an expert even a slight rub down works wonders to stimulate blood flow in all the right areas!

Finally, remember increasing the female sex drive involves nurturing psychological, physical, and environmental factors. A woman wants sex but her greatest problem is convincing herself. You can do this by de-stressing her mind or with libido enhancers which create sensations in her body that she can't ignore!

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Treating Male Sexual Impotency Together

2008-07-15T03:08:00.000-07:00

Treating male sexual impotency together as a couple can be an effective way to deal with this delicate issue. Male sexual impotency can involve a number of factors and more often than not the root cause is found to be of a physiological or psychological nature. Seeking treatment for sexual impotency as a couple involves a number of issues such as what type of couple would this type of treatment be most suited to and what type of couple is likely to achieve positive results from this approach. This article will give some ideas of the type of couple most suitable for treating male sexual impotency as a couple.

First of all the couple need to be able to communicate and not be embarrassed to openly discuss the most intimate sexual issues within their relationship. They need to be forthcoming about their feelings, desires and problems with these issues. They must be able to view the male sexual impotency as a joint problem without apportioning blame to one partner or the other. Treating male sexual impotency together as a couple can only be successful if the couple are committed to working through the course of treatment together.

Secondly, the couple must possess a good sense of humour. Whilst the problem of male sexual impotency is a serious issue within the relationship, it is important not to be stressed out by it. Humour often helps to deal with the treatment and keep matters in a proper perspective.

Thirdly, the couple need to deal with and openly discuss their sexual history not just in their own relationship but maybe also in previous relationships. This can often lead to identifying a 'crack' in their relationship which can lead to proactive measures within the treatment program to repair the crack. Male sexual impotency is a delicate issue for discussion within this context and will require a high level of commitment from both sides to achieve a positive result.

Finally, the couple need to appreciate that there is unlikely to be an immediate short term solution particularly if the problem is of a psychological nature. They must be realistic about the outcome of a course of treatment for male sexual impotency and accept that it may take some time for the full extent of the treatment to take effect.

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Sexual Health for Men

2008-07-15T03:05:00.000-07:00

Sex has changed so much over generation to generation. Not the actual act, as it has pretty much stayed relatively similar to what it always has been, but the people doing it and the age level has changed so much.

From the invention of the television to radio and now the internet as the ease of information being passed around at such a lightning rate has increased the overall sexual awareness of our population 10 fold. With websites dedicated towards pleasing your woman and other sexual items, it is hard to deny the sexual appetite.

Males are easily the most sexually driven of the two genders. This is not to say that all men have more of a drive then women, as there are some that can equal or even have a higher drive than men.

The drive alone can easily become an obsession if not taken care of in a moderate way. Pornography obsessed teenagers come to mind as I write that. Is that technically bad? I would say not as their hormones are an absolute rage of exploding energy. Combine that with their natural sexual curiosity and you have a sexual appetite that could power some small cities.

But is being oversexed bad?

Is there even such a thing has having too much sex? I know the men out there reading this are going to disagree with me on this but there actually is such a thing as being oversexed. Now before you start clicking away from the page and begin cussing me out in the process stay with me for a few more moments so that I can explain.

The idea of too much sex is a relative term as some couples can easily go through 3, 4 or even 5 times a day or more of sexual activity, while other couples might not engage in sex for months. You might be asking yourself, what does this matter to anything.

Well, to me the secret to good sexual health for males is by having a good sexual relationship with your partner. If you do not have a good sexual relationship with your partner, one or both of you will end up being oversexed or undersexed. Usually the male will end up being undersexed and the woman will end up being oversexed.

To me the key to good sexual health is the steady activity of sex consistent in every males life. Now the only way to do this is if you are on "good" terms with your partner. If they feel that they are just being used like a piece of meat, they are oversexed and will end up shutting you out.

While doing this, it will lead to a period of you being frustrated and undersexed and cause problems with your own sexual health.

Do you see what I am getting at here? By taking care of your partner and their sexual appetite level you are going to ensure that you continue to have a consistent amount of sex. If you try to force it upon them, you will end up alienating yourself and end up sleeping on the couch more often then you like.

Another important aspect of sexual health is confidence. If a man is not confident, he will not perform well. While the importance of the size of a penis to women highly debated, it's hard to argue that it is beneficial to men themselves.

A man with a larger penis is more likely to be confident and act confident. It's not the answer to all of a man's sexual problems, but it certainly can't hurt.

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